Happy girls are the prettiest, right? At least that\u2019s what Audrey Hepburn taught us. Half of her sparkle came from the mischievous smile that was always on her lips. But it\u2019s true. Happy girls are the prettiest.<\/p>\n
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You know that one friend you have who\u2019s always depressed, never wants to do anything, and is always complaining about how her coffee isn\u2019t hot enough? You don\u2019t want to spend too much time around her. I have a friend like that, Danielle, and I either tell her to brighten up, or I just keep my distance for a few days until I can stand her again. It\u2019s pretty much the same thing when it comes to dating. Men may not even know it, but it\u2019s human nature to be attracted to someone warm, loving, and happy\u2014and to be turned off by negativity. The feminist in me says, \u201cI\u2019m human. Just because I\u2019m a woman, I shouldn\u2019t have to put a smile on my face to get a guy.\u201d I can understand that, but regardless of being male or female, humans are attracted to positivity.<\/p>\n
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Would you be attracted to a man that is constantly pouting, pissed off at his boss, or depressed? Or would you be attracted to a man that has an aura of good vibes, a man whose smile lights up the room he walks into? That\u2019s what I thought.<\/p>\n
\nSMART GIRL SECRET:<\/p>\n
BE HAPPY, EVEN WHEN YOU’RE NOT<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n
SO, You\u2019ve never been sad and you never ever want to be sad. Sad people are sad. Happy people are contagious like the Zika Virus. You are the happiest person alive, and nothing can get in your way. Your life is so great that he wants to put himself in it.<\/p>\n
And he will.<\/p>\n
\nSMART GIRL SECRETS YOU NEED FOR GOING OUT<\/span><\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n
If you have a stubborn, pissed-off look on your face, no man will come near you. Why? Because it\u2019s negative, intimidating, and not fun.<\/p>\n
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So stop being bitch and put a smile on your face.<\/p>\n
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We all know how to fake orgasms; is it really asking so much to fake a smile?<\/p>\n
\nMEN ARE LIKE BABIES.<\/span><\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n
When you smile and radiate positivity and happiness, men are lured in. They want warmth, they want a maternal touch, they want love, and they want positivity. When you\u2019re smiling and happy, the man thinks to himself, She looks like she\u2019s in a good mood; I might have a shot with her. She might be in a good enough mood to give me her number. He may also think, She looks so happy; I wonder what she\u2019s laughing about. I would like some happiness in my life.<\/p>\n
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When a woman pouts and looks angry, or even sad and depressed, the man thinks to himself, She looks like she has no patience at all; asking for her number would be a long shot.<\/p>\n
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Lets face it: we aren\u2019t always happy, and we can\u2019t always be happy. We\u2019re going to cry about feeling fat or not being successful enough or (goddess forbid) serious stuff. But if you see a cute guy at a bar and you want him to talk to you (because you will never go up to him, right? That\u2019s not even a question. #dontbeadesperatewhore), remember: be happy, even when you\u2019re not.<\/p>\n
BE HAPPY: ON A DATE<\/strong><\/p>\n
<\/div>\nSay he takes you to a seafood restaurant, but you\u2019re allergic to shellfish (true story) you have two options. 1) Be a bitch about it and have an annoying Kourtney Kardashian \u201cover it\u201d face, or 2) Tell him you\u2019re allergic to shellfish (in a cute way), laugh it off, and order drinks and sides. You should absolutely go with the second option (but make sure to have your EpiPen). This can make or break the entire relationship. A guy wants to know that, no matter the situation, you take things easily. Of course, later on in the relationship he\u2019ll know not to take you to seafood restaurants.<\/p>\n
<\/div>\nBE HAPPY: MEETING HIS FRIENDS<\/strong><\/p>\n
<\/div>\nIf he takes you to meet his friends and you\u2019re on your period, feeling like shit and not wanting to see anyone, guess what? You\u2019re going to have to suck it up. Friends are a huge deal for guys. You need to be as sweet, kind, and happy as you can. I\u2019m not saying overdo it with an exaggerative smile like Hilary Duff in Lizzie McGuire, but I am saying: be cute. As we\u2019ve learned, personality plays a major role in the dating scene, and so, do \u201chis boys.\u201d If they like you, they\u2019ll spread positive energy (i.e., tell him how cute you are) and he\u2019ll want to go for you even more.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
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