{"id":287,"date":"2018-05-01T12:00:34","date_gmt":"2018-05-01T12:00:34","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/smartgirlknows.com\/?p=287"},"modified":"2018-05-08T05:27:46","modified_gmt":"2018-05-08T05:27:46","slug":"the-3-most-important-things-to-look-for-in-a-relationship","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/smartgirlknows.com\/staging\/the-3-most-important-things-to-look-for-in-a-relationship\/","title":{"rendered":"THE 3 MOST IMPORTANT THINGS TO LOOK FOR IN A RELATIONSHIP"},"content":{"rendered":"

<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span>Thanks to the new wave of confidence Amy Schumer\u2019s \u2018I Feel Pretty\u2019 has bestowed upon us, we Smart Girls officially DGAF about what men want for the next few days<\/span>\u00a0ever again. Instead, we\u2019re focusing on what WE are looking for in a guy, and guess what? We have high standards because we are high maintenance<\/span> standard.<\/p>\n

Unfortunately, this means finding a guy you actually want a relationship with can be hard, but since you\u2019re a Smart Girl, here are 3 of the most important things to look for in a relationship.<\/p>\n

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1. ATTRACTION<\/strong><\/h1>\n

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<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span>As Kim and Kanye have taught us, couples exist in real life where the woman is clearly hotter than the guy. Sometimes, though, attraction isn\u2019t only about looks \u2013 it\u2019s about Kris Jenner\u2019s determination to grow the Kardashian family brand. But seriously, you should never settle for how attracted you are to a guy, because if you don\u2019t want to jump into bed with him as soon as he crosses your mind, you\u2019re wasting your time. Even if he buys you a Fifth Avenue fortress and turns you from a Slovenian escort into FLOTUS, if you\u2019re not attracted to him you\u2019ll end up with a permanent resting bitch face and a constant desire to hit his hand TF away whenever he tries to hold yours #freeMelania.<\/p>\n

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2. HOW HE TREATS YOU<\/strong><\/h1>\n

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<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span>This should be obvious, but according to every reality show I\u2019ve ever watched and Khloe Kardashian, I\u2019m honestly kind of confused. If you know what you\u2019re worth, you literally can\u2019t stay with a guy that doesn\u2019t treat you like Meghan Markle<\/span> a real<\/em> princess. He can be Ryan Gosling\u2019s long lost identical twin, but if he ever makes you feel like shit or puts his hands on you, there will be absolutely no settling. All jokes aside, if there\u2019s one thing a Smart Girl knows it\u2019s that the way he treats you is literally everything.<\/p>\n

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3.\u00a0DRIVE<\/strong><\/h1>\n

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<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span>Sorry, but we all know happiness doesn\u2019t last forever and diamonds do. LOL JK. I know money doesn’t buy happiness but it still doesn\u2019t hurt to look for a guy that at least wants<\/em> to be successful in the future, you know? As long as he has ambition and drive, you\u2019re fine. If he\u2019s not earning the big bucks (yet), it really doesn\u2019t matter because you\u2019re an independent woman who makes her own money anyway.<\/p>\n

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Right????<\/p>\n

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Kisses,<\/p>\n

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<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span>SGK<\/p>\n

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